Labor Free Weekend

I had such an enjoyable, relaxing, labor free weekend. 

 The weekend started with the Rascal Flatts concert and a girls night out.  This quote about the evening sums it up well, “I’m not proud of it, but we had fun.”  I mean we only live once, right? 

Before the concert with the Whelchel gals and friends!

Then Saturday was quite a lazy day until I was surprised by an evening date with the love of my life.  He shocked me when he said, “We have reservations at 8:30.  Get ready.”

I don’t do so well with surprise, but I try and go with the flow the best I can when he has a love spark!

Before date night….and I still don’t know where we are headed. 

A little stop on the way to our date night.  I won $55 on these tickets!

Sunday was a nice trip with my aunt and cousin to visit with my grandma.  I don’t know if I just didn’t understand my grandma’s humor when I was younger or that she has just gotten more hilarious with age.  We had a nice lunch and a nice drive through a local park even though the weather was gloomy from Hurricane Isaac.  On our drive through the local park we found some interesting creatures….and signs. 

What the truck? A one legged duck?

Slow Sbeed Bumps Ahead….but what you can’t see is the picture of a car popping a wheelie!

Then we traveled on over to a sweet little place called The Rodeo Shop to do some boots, jeans, and jewelry shopping. 

I fell in love with these….

It’s always good to “get out of town” even if for a day!

And we ended our lovely three day weekend with some comfort food.  I would have preferred to grill out one last time but quite frankly the weather led me to cooking up some comfort food instead.  Ya know….the kind of food that weighs you down and keeps you on the couch all night?  And it cooked all day in the stove so by the time it was ready our mouths were just salivating. 

cubed steak, green bean casserole, mac n cheese, and cornbread
Meal idea courtesy of Aunt C!

So now we are on to just a little bit of a work week.  I’ve got to see my littles sometime real soon.  My life feels a little incomplete without their hugs and kisses!

Have a fabulous four day week!

Time is Love

Ever have one of those songs that you hear and just think, “Yup, that’s my life right now!”?

I’ve heard one recently and although it has yet to actually change any of my actions….I’m hoping it does soon.

My guy got a new job.  His new job has him extremely busy.  It’s a busy time of year for the ag business because fall and harvest are upon us.  So, I fully expected to not see him a whole lot.  I really thought I was quite use to this time of year and the lack of time we get to spend together.  However, it’s starting to really get to me. 

On top of that, my job has me running circles as well.  You would think after six years at it I would have everything down pat.  Unfortunately the “powers that be” have decided to challenge us by requiring much more.  Documentation.  Documentation.  Documentation.  I love creating valuable lesson plans.  I love what I do.  I do not enjoy the paperwork.  Enough said about that. 

So, when I hear the song “Time is Love” by Josh Turner I am instantly reminded that I need to step away from my desk at work.  I need to step away from my numerous commitments.  Heck, I even need to step away from this laptop. 

It’s hard to remember those things when he’s home.  Our evenings together are rare.  Our time together is precious.  Time is love…

i know i gotta put in the hours,
make the money while the sunlight shines
but anything i gotta get done,
it can get done some other time

time is love, gotta run,
love to hang longer,
but i got someone who waits,
waits for me and right now
she’s where i need to be,
time is love, gotta run

i only get so many minutes,
don’t wanna spend ’em all on the clock
in the time that we spent talkin’,
how many kisses have i lost?

time is love, gotta run,
love to hang longer,
but i got someone who waits,
waits for me and right now
she’s where i need to be,
time is love, gotta run.

time is love, gotta run

Gotta run,

Even more…

Over night sometime my Blogger finally showed I had 23 followers!  Wow, that feels amazing!

Thank you….

Jess
Amanda
Holly

You are all three very I important people in my life in your own unique ways.

Amanda – it’s time to have that baby.  I needs some snuggle time with something tiny and warm and oh so wonderful new baby smell.

Truly Blessed,

Ashley a Fortunate Gal

Holler

Ask and you shall receive!

I have some amazing family and friends who totally stepped it up and followed through.  For that I want to give a holler to those who love me so. 

Sister: What ever would I do without you?  My sister, my friend, my motherly advice.  I could never put into words how grateful I am for you in my life. 

Aunt Cathy: My friend, my middle name, my go to phone call.  Mom use to say we were too much alike.  I think we’re “just right” alike. 

Aunt Beth: I’m so very lucky to have not one, but many amazing aunts and you are one of them.  I always wanted to be a teacher….just because of you. 

Aunt Shelly: You met me at one of the biggest moments of my life.  Too bad I can’t remember.  I couldn’t be more pleased you are part of our family.  I can go to you for anything, but what I love best is your hugs. 

Aunt Susie: Quiet and calm in this crazy storm we call a family.  Like a light at the end of the tunnel. 

Cousin Tracy: A big support, a back seat on your Harley, and someone I admire for everything you are and everything you do. 

Heidi @ Ramblings of a Farmers Wife and a Mommy’s Life : A blogging buddy, a sweet neighbor, a gal pal to vent to, and a beautifully amazing friend.  Your story inspires me.  It’s why I read you daily. 

Michelle: My sister from another mister.  It’s a good thing our parents became best friends all those years ago because I couldn’t imagine my life without ya. 

Joe and Chrissy: My brother from another mother and his wifey.  Jong-O-E.  I’ll never forget the torture of honey in Gatlinburg and our own little language. 

Chris and Ang: Family is who you surround yourself with.  Good thing we have handsome/beautiful folks like y’all around.  The giggles are endless when you are near.  Something very special about the two of you. 

Joy: You use to be a friend of a friend.  Now you’re just a friend.  Thank you for being that friend.  Who I could always count on to compliment my chest.  Nuff said. 

Mindy H: You’re far away but still a pal.  Always keep in touch. 

Heather @ 3 Kids and Lots of Pigs : 4-H has brought us together as blogging buddies and friends.  I love seeing your family once a year and watching your littles grow. 

Jessie H: You’re an inspiration when my mind says, “I can’t.”  I know somewhere out there you’ve probably just ran 20 miles and you’re probably still going.  Keep being awesome. 

Claudia: Friend, follower, and always a sweet memory of my mother.  Those things I hold very dear. 

Carla: Miss working with you but love catching up through our social networks and random family/friend gatherings.  The time we did get to work together is always cherished…and maybe someday again!

Jason and Nicole: A true inspiration to kicking ass and taking names when you want something.  Two quiet people when I met you.  One awesomely loud lady now that I know her.  We could really do some destruction if we spent too much time together. 

Taylor: Thank you for being a follower. 

Lori O: I love Lori because I have no idea who she is.  I know we’ve never met in real life.  She’s my first mystery follower.  That….is pretty darn cool. 

Thank you to everyone for reading my randomness.  I enjoy writing because it’s my avenue of therapy. 

Everyone has a story.  I hope you find mine worth reading for quite some time. 

Flattered and Thankful,

Followers…

Please help!

I’m dying to gain some more followers.  Really…a magical number of 20 sounds about right.

Currently I have 12.  12 loyal fans.  12 diehard friends.  12 beloved peeps.  Wouldn’t you love to be one of them?

Simply click on the Become Follower link on the right.  It’s really simple and you don’t even have to create an image of yourself. 

Come on.  Do it.

You know you want to!

High Five Friday

Happy Friday!

I can’t tell you how thrilled I am that it’s Friday.  I’ve been battling this sinus/allergy/cold thing all week and I’m ready for some rest.  Although….not quite sure how much rest I will get with the list of things in my mind that I need to do around here! 

An enjoyable week as always though!

1. This stuff is fabulous.  An instagram pal, Amber, was not lying when she said it was like crack.  It’s so mouth watering on wheat thins.  I even took the label off the package and hid it in our fridge so the guy doesn’t find it and start enjoying it too.  So good!  Must try!

2. My dad’s birthday celebration was a hit.  A small dinner at a local italian cafe.  Love their food.  Huge portions, homemade cooking.  Good to sit down, relax, and enjoy a meal with my little family.  We definitely took over the little restaurant and made it very loud, very quick!

3. That’s just a glimpse into my kitchen right now.  We aren’t remodeling.  We aren’t redecorating.  We are doing nothing fun what so ever.  We are simply mad time cleaning trying to rid of nasty little moths that have invaded the grains/flours of our cabinets and pantries.  Really there is nothing to high five about this situation…EXCEPT….that after this weekend our house will smell so clean and I’m absolutely certain you won’t find a moth in it.  (pray with me please)

4.  Indiana sunsets and Instagram.  I literally stopped in the middle of the road to get this picture.  No filter.  Nothing.  Just me and my iPhone.  I watched the sun creep down as I was driving and then noticed the beautiful grain bins and barn backdrop and couldn’t resist.  Sad part is that I didn’t even pay attention to see if someone was behind me.  I just plain stopped. I’ve been preaching common sense to my cherubs this week and it seems I was majorly lacking in that department when this photo took place.

5. One of my very best friends is having another baby.  Even better, another baby GIRL.  Miss Mallory should be here sometime in February and I was so thrilled to throw a diaper shower with another friend for Amanda today.  I was even more thrilled that this necklace I ordered off of Etsy arrived in time.  I love mommy handstamped jewelry.  I love personalized gifts period.  I think there is nothing better. 

Here’s to another great week and a high five worthy Friday! 

Now I’m going to go down a bit of Nyquil and call it an evening.  We have major house cleaning to get done this weekend.  Anyone want to come over and help?!?!

Sneezy and Snotty,

Dad

Happy birthday to my DAD! 

He deserves a wonderful day.  He’s certainly been through a lot in his life.  Lost his dad.  Lost his wife.  Had a heart attack.  Lost his mom. 

The man has conquered battles and won.  He’s one of the hardest workers I’ve ever known.  He’s the definition of dedication.  To his family.  To his business.  To his church.  To his friends. 

Looking forward to next year and the big 60!

Love you in this picture.  In this jacket.  Love your style 

Your sense of humor is the best. 

You’re an amazing grandpa.  You and your mini me with the wrinkled nose smiles. 

I’ll always be your little girl no matter how much I grow up. 

My daddy!

Love ya dad,

She was ready

Last night we celebrated.  Boy, did we celebrate. 

Dancing with grandma to “We are Family”
The littles getting down on the dance floor!
Partying like rock stars!  Shades compliments of the lovely couple.  Cool idea!

My little cousin got married.  She was a beautiful bride.  Her guy a handsome groom.  The wedding party was full of life and everyone there knew how to have a good time.

Mr. and Mrs. with Pretty Princess
Mr. and Mrs. on the dance floor so fast they were blurry!



One of the many reasons I love her. 

I always cry at weddings.  Just something about ’em which gets me all emotional.  It’s a beautiful thing to witness the beginning of two people’s lives together.  So, I cried last night of course because it wasn’t just a beautiful couple.  This time it was my sweet baby cousin.  One of the most kindhearted, loving, coolest chicks I know.  She’s all grown up and walking down the aisle with the biggest grin on her face.  Walking straight to the guy she’s going to be with forever.  You could just see it by the grins spread on their face that they love each other and can’t wait to get started.  I cried then as she walked down to see him and he stepped up to get her.  I cried when she hugged my uncle one last time before her let her go.  I cried when they shared their first kiss as husband and wife.

And then I cried again.  Big ole alligator tears.  When my uncle said a few words.  He’s typically a man of few words, but when he gives them you better listen.  It’s either going to be comical or meaningful.  I’ve learned this about both of my mom’s brothers in the last few years.  Wonderful men.  Wise advice.  Loving hearts. 

His words made everyone in the place cry.  He talked about her being ready, even when he wasn’t.  The day she was born.  The first day of school.  The day she got her driver’s license.  The day she went to college.  And the day she got married.  She was ready.  Ready to start her life with her husband.  Ready to begin their future together.  She was ready. 

First Dance.

I’m very thankful for the large, loving family that I am a part of.  I’m grateful that we had the chance to be a part of something so special. 

Love these girls.  My cousins.  My friends.

Tis the season for weddings!  We have two more to celebrate for wonderful friends of ours and I can’t wait to cry some more tears of joy for their new beginnings as well.

Cheers to weddings!

Blessed and Grateful,

 

First High Five Friday

My blogging friend and neighbor, Heidi, over at Ramblings of a Farmer’s Wife got me hooked on the idea of a High Five Friday post. 

I’ve been looking forward to a reason for a weekly post but just haven’t made the time….until now.  I’m going to do my very best to share with you 5 highlights from my week every Friday. 

Because, let’s face it…..Friday is a HUGE reason to be happy and hand out HIGH FIVES!







1. Love notes.  I came home Monday evening to love notes all over the house.  Big news on this frontier. The love of my life scored a new gig.  This new gig will bring some major changes, first being out of town for a week.  It was rough.  Shiloh hated it too.  But, we made it.  The love notes all over the house are what saved me. 

2. Puppy play time.  Tava is Shiloh’s cousin.  She and Shiloh play so wel together and I love taking her over to my aunt’s house to play.  They are hilarious to watch.  There’s something quite relaxing about sitting on a back porch watching two dogs wrestle and play. 

3. Signed up for my next 5k.  Will I be able to run the whole thing?  I’d like to say yes.  I guess I should say yes.  Something terrible is making me doubt myself though.  I did too 13.1 miles last May, right?  Geesh….seems like forever ago!

4. This is a clear sign I am back to work.  Piles.  Of.  Papers.  But, the great part is that I’m getting to really know my students so well through assessing them.  Plus, if I work my butt off during the week then I don’t have to bring anything home on the weekend.  HIGH FIVE to that!

5. She is hilarious.  She is totally me at that age. My poor sister.   I love every minute of watching her sing.  Watching her dance.  Watching her embarass her father.  The girl just straight cracks me up.  Even better when a 6 year old says, “Don’t put that video on the internet!”  Too bad she forgot to tell me not to put the photo on!  Love her to pieces. 


Now I’m ready to enjoy a relaxing weekend of celebration for my love’s new gig and him being back home….plus a family wedding!  Cheers!


and HIGH FIVE!

From My Grey Desk ~ High Five Friday

Lots of Love and Full of Fortune,


Realizations with new beginnings

1. I am not meant to be the girlfriend of a traveling worker.

2. I am probably also not meant to have a loaded gun in case I get scared.

3. Shiloh is just as much of a spaz about this situation as I am. See picture below as she waits by the door each and every night.

4. The first night wasn’t so bad. The second night I was a sobbing mess. A realization that I couldn’t do this very often.

5. Nobody makes my coffee quite like he does.

6. His new beginnings means big adjustments for our relationship, mostly positive with just a smidgen of negatives.

7. We can handle it.

8. This guy is totally my best friend. My confident. My amigo. My pal. My buddy. My boyfriend. My bestie. (ugh. I despise that word and totally just used it?!)

9. I have some pretty amazing people in my life who care so much about me that as I’ve been “growing up” this week they’ve still been calling to check in on me and help with things.

10. We are meant to be together. Forever. Grow old in rocking chairs. Have babies. Then grand babies. Maybe even great grand babies. forever.

Best friends.